Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Updates anyone?
Things are fine... things are good... baby steps :)
p.s. Also- I'm in love... so that's great :)
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
The best part of getting married is the early mornings. When you wake up in your husband's arms and cuddle up... or when one person is awake and kisses the other one up too... I love rubbing my cold, winter legs against Am's and hearing him squeal :D
Sometimes, when he is sleeping at night and I can't get any sleep, I like to look at him.. he sleeps like a baby with faint snores... We keep only 1 pillow in our room.. coz he says he doesn't need one.. but how he lands up on my pillow every morning, I don't know :D :D
Early mornings are great! (Don't get me started on the nights though! ;)
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Solitude...
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
What's in a name?
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Friday, July 3, 2009
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Status Update
p.s. Good to see myself smiling like this again :D :D
Monday, June 29, 2009
Are you feeling gay?
The question then is that if a person is born like this, then isn't it Nature's doing? And so, how can you be against the order of nature? What is funnier is that in a democracy, a person basically does not have the right to choose his life partner. When I hear politicians, clerics, maulvis, priests and pundits say that this is a sin or that it is against their scriptures- I wanna give them 1 tight slap (MTV style!)
a) Because we all know that these people just want power and have never been modern thinkers. They will hardly support any idea of change.
b) Stop the crap about how this is against Indian culture and how we Indians are so culturally rich etc etc... The country is bursting from its seams because of its uncontrollable population- which means that somebody is getting laid. So just cut the pretence of being seedha-saadha...
c) We keep hearing stories about young boys and girls being abused by priests and pundits. Now that's unnatural!
Every time a discussion has been started about this law, the ministers from the concerned ministries have themselves been orthodox thinkers and have not been able to even come to a consensus regarding at least modifying Article 377. (But this time around I'm hoping we'll see something concrete happen).
I know it will take a long time for the LGBT community to become a part of the mainstream community in a country like ours. But it's definitely heartening to see that there seems to be a positive change and acceptance and more and more people have the courage to come out of the closet.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Stop Child Abuse
I dont have answers for her. I have learnt how to handle queries, how to give comfort, how to be sympathetic.... but I don't have answers to questions like these. There are just so many threads to each situation like this. There are so many people/family members involved....I'd like to think that I explained the importance and urgency of the situation very well to her... and also convinced her to talk to her husband. But everytime I come across cases like these, I get more and more frustrated... I don't get the feeling that I'm doing any good in the world (or not enough at least). I'd like to see Elaan have a full-fledged intervention cell, where we can actually protect victims like these... but I know that's not happening any time soon... and that's what scares me... there are so many children out there and no one to listen to them, support them or stand for them...
p.s. Photograph by Paromita Deb Areng